• Handcrafted Ecocrete candle holder featuring the grey white and yellow colors of the Demigender pride flag blended smoothly together. Product shot on grass with styling that includes a silver 2oz candle tin and black 4oz candle tin behind it, displaying the three available sizes of this LGBTQIA+ home decor piece.
  • "Handcrafted Ecocrete candle holder featuring the black white and yellow colors of the Demigender pride flag, elegantly blended together. Set against a clean white background, this unique design celebrates identity and personal expression. Perfect for LGBTQ+ decor, pride gifts, and home ambiance."
  • 3/4 top-down view of a handcrafted candle holder, showcasing the black, white, and yellow colors of the Demigender pride flag seamlessly blending together with the gray candle clearly visible. Set against a clean white background, this unique design celebrates identity and expression. Ideal for LGBTQ+ home decor, pride gifts, and statement lighting.
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Demigender Pride Candle – 🌥️ The Candle for the Beautifully In-Between

Demigender Pride Candle – 🌥️ The Candle for the Beautifully In-Between

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Some identities are bold strokes. Yours? A soft blur of white, yellow, and grey—where the edges melt like cream into black cardamom spice, smooth and impossible to pin down.

This candle doesn’t demand definition. It glows in the almost, the not-quite, the "I’ll know when I get there." Light it when you need your space to feel like that perfect, quiet moment of not having to explain—when the air smells like possibility, not pressure.

Because you don’t owe the world a label. Just the soft, steady light of your own truth, whatever shape it takes today.

Make It Yours:

WICKLETS™ – A soft glow for gender-lite moments, like explaining your identity over coffee—short, sweet, and slightly caffeinated.

SPITEBITES™ – Pure "I’ll decide later" energy for your nightstand, office, or gifting to that one relative who just doesn’t get it.

WICKED WICKS™ – A slow burn as layered as your journey, in a vessel destined to hold pens, memories, or the quiet revolution of just being.

Each pour swirls demigender flag colors—white, yellow, grey—as subtle and shifting as identity itself. Ships in 7–10 days: "Faster than societal acceptance, slower than your self-discovery timeline."

Light it. Breathe. Exist exactly as you are—wherever that is.

☁️ No rush. No rules. Just you. ☁️

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Three reasons to feel good about your morally questionable candle addiction.

  • Hand-Poured, Not Corporate-Sold

    Our candles areliterallymade by a queer human (hi) in a small, rage-filled studio—not a factory that also makes toothpaste.

  • Customizable Chaos

    Want a scent called "Bury Me in Debt" or" CEO Tears"? Slide into our DMs. We love a collaborative descent into madness.

  • No Ethical Consumption Under Capitalism (But This is Close)

    Clean-burning soy wax, phthalate-free fragrances, no Prop 65 toxins—just ethically-made candles that don’t screw with your lungs or your conscience.